Ask Sean YouTube Channel
Free Therapeutic Advice to Help You Become More Present to Yourself, Your Relationships and Your Life
Welcome! You might be arriving here directly from YouTube, or you may be a client (or potential client) just exploring the Transitions website. Regardless, I am glad you are here! The Ask Sean YouTube Channel is where I engage with anonymous questions about the challenges of being human and learning to grow, heal and flourish. These videos are not meant to be therapy, or a replacement for therapy—if you are here seeking counseling services please see the New Client page, or my tips for choosing a counselor.
Who Is This For?
I welcome questions from anyone! However, if you are a current/previous client then I recommend that you bring your questions directly to me in your next counseling session. Ask Sean is intended to be a resource for those who do not have me as their counselor—it is a way for me to offer some help and guidance to many more people than I am able to take on as clients. So if you are one of my clients (current or past) just schedule a counseling session and we can talk through your questions together in real time.
Regardless of whether you are a client or not, I encourage you to share Ask Sean with anyone you think it could help. Simply point them to AskSean.org/YouTube which will automatically redirect them to the YouTube Channel (and AskSean.org, which redirects to this current page).
Fellow counselors, helpers, and leaders are welcome to pose questions regarding the people you are trying to guide and support. Whether you are a mental health worker, a pastor, a teacher, a medical professional or a leader in your organization, you are working with people and thus may have challenging dynamics and situations which you might like my input on. Obviously, when sharing your question you will need to be particularly careful about the details you share, but as I recommend in the Guidelines, focus on the feel of whatever patterns, behaviors and situations with others you are finding challenging to navigate. In addition to offering some possibilities of what might be going on with whomever you are trying to help, I can also potentially offer you some things to consider regarding how the other person’s struggles may be intersecting with your own (which is often a part of where we get stuck).
Guidelines for Ask Sean Questions
Please provide some context for your question by telling me what happened, how you felt (emotionally and somatically), what you thought, and finally, what you want to change.
Note: If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911 (or equivalent for your locale), try some of the community emergency resources, or visit your nearest hospital emergency room. The Ask Sean YouTube Channel is not therapy, nor a replacement for therapy.
Please Remember:
- Your question is anonymous, which means you will not receive a reply.
- Anything you write or record may be quoted exactly, or altered for clarity, readability, etc. at my discretion. Thus, do not express anything you are not comfortable being shared with the world via YouTube. Do not share your full name, and certainly feel free to refer to yourself and others via initials, first name only, nicknames, etc.—whatever feels best for protecting your privacy and anonymity.
- While I aim to give a video response to every question received I cannot guarantee a response (nor the timing of a response).
Tell me the story your question is embedded in. Where were you? What kind of day were you having? What sorts of feelings and thoughts were you having before, during, and after the occurrence of whatever has prompted your question. How was your body feeling (pay attention to things like changes in tension and energy)? Who are the key characters in the story, and what is your relation to each? All of this is less about sharing exact detail, and more about giving me a “feel” for your experience. You might find it helpful to share your question as though you were telling your story to a friend or family member. I would also encourage you to share your own thoughts and reflections regarding why you are struggling, feeling stuck, etc. in the ways that you are, as well as any ways you have made sense of the focus of your question thus far.
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Note: If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911 (or equivalent for your locale), try some of the community emergency resources, or visit your nearest hospital emergency room. The Ask Sean YouTube Channel is not therapy, nor a replacement for therapy.
Read the Guidelines if you need help asking your question.
This form is for the Ask Sean YouTube Channel. By submitting a question, you are agreeing to let Sean Slevin and Transitions Counseling use your question audio and text in various media, in entirety or partially (including edits for length and/or clarity). While I aspire to respond to each question on YouTube, there is no guarantee that your question will be featured on the Channel.
I am glad you have taken the time to share a question for Ask Sean. I hope that this process of expressing yourself is a step towards becoming more present to your life, and that you will build on this momentum by continuing to reach out to other people.
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For the Ask Sean YouTube Channel
Note: If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911 (or equivalent for your locale), try some of the community emergency resources, or visit your nearest hospital emergency room. The Ask Sean YouTube Channel is not therapy, nor a replacement for therapy.
Provide context for your question by telling me what happened, how you felt (emotionally and somatically), what you thought, and finally, what you want to change. Read the Guidelines if you need help with your question.
Find an Error or Bug?

